Interviewing: Tricks Of The Trade

Hello lovely job seekers. Today's post is written by my dear friend and all around love-bug, Heldana. She has worked in the recruiting field for over two years and is now sharing her tips on how to kill it! If you want to hear directly from a recruiter at your dream company, look up (i.e. stalk) where they will be speaking or presenting in the near future and show up! Or reach out to them over email and express your interest. You can get in touch with them on LinkedIn or by getting their contact information from a friend who works at the company. The days of submitting a resume and hoping they call you are over for you... not just because that is the most difficult way to get in, but because you are not one in a million. You are actively seeking greatness, so use your networks, be honest about what you stand for and let Jesus take the wheel from there (I'm kidding. You should always keep your eyes on the road, especially if you have a whole career ahead of you). But seriously, here is Heldana on the interview process from the recruiting perspective. 

I'm so excited to be featured on Depth & Candor this week, and even more excited to share some wisdom with you as you venture into the dark path of finding yourself a job post graduation. I'm not going to sugarcoat the interview process and tell you that it's not overwhelming or exhausting or even discouraging at times. I will say, however, that it is EXTREMELY rewarding (both for your ego and your wallet) once you get through the hard-and-not-so-fun part. My purpose with this post is essentially to make the interview process a little less hard and a little more fun with five things you should remember.  Let's get started!

1. There’s no such thing as being "bad at interviews"The purpose of an interview is essentially someone asking you questions with the intention of getting to know you better. So unless you don't know anything about yourself, it should be difficult to bomb this part. That being said, this should also not be seen as an opportunity for you to share your entire life story. Focus on how your friends, colleagues, and peers would describe you to a stranger, and use that to market the shit out of yourself.

2. Come prepared to show case your super powers It’s almost always expected to add a lot of fluff when you are marketing yourself, and that’s okay. However, please be privy of what exactly you’re adding fluff to. You want to be able to back everything you say up, so make sure there’s a good amount of truth in everything that you either put on your resume or say in person to an interviewer/recruiter. Recruiters spend a ridiculous amount of time reviewing resumes every day. Do they care that you probably weren’t an ‘active member’ of the Young Democrats in 2011? Probably not. Do they care that you didn’t actually pass the bar exam but put it on your resume anyway? Definitely.  If you’re going to tell an interviewer that you are an amazing individual and the best at what you do, make sure that you actually believe it as well. Only then can you confidently speak on the things you know, and back up all the fluff that you share. You’re a hard worker? Give an example as to why. You work well in groups? Share a story about how well you worked with a group on a specific project and all the things you learned about yourself as a result. Oh, you traveled the world in 50 days? Pics or it didn’t happen. That kind of stuff. 

3. Please bring a pen. Or a pencil…. or at least a bagI’m not kidding. I haven’t been on the receiving end of an interview in a long time, but when I was, it was a given to take at least 5 copies of my resume to an interview. And a notepad with a pen. And a folder to go with it to make it look pretty. Candidates are now showing up with one thing, and one thing only: themselves. I can’t tell you how many times a candidate has shown up for an interview empty handed with nothing to show but their cellphones and chapstick. It's as if they are doing the company a favor by coming in at all. I don’t know if this is a result of candidates being more confident or not, but it’s a pet peeve for recruiters. As a candidate, I understand that it feels great when you are called in for an interview, but the process to getting yourself a job is far from over so PLEASE continue to woo. And if you do happen to forget to bring a resume, utilize your recruiter (who by the way, wants you to get the job as much as you do), and have him/her print it out for you beforehand. 

4. Recruiting Coordinator: Friend or Foe?In most cases, after you speak with a recruiter about a potential job opportunity, you will either do a phone interview or an in person interview with an individual/team qualified to assess your skills. During this time, there’s a lot of behind the scenes coordinating that no one knows anything about, but I’m here to share the wealth of knowledge. The person in charge of scheduling your interviews and picking who you meet with is a critical person for you to befriend during the process. This person is available not only to schedule your interviews and tell you where to be and when, but they also have a lot of background information on who you will meet with. And if you play your cards right, this person can give you tips on the interviewers, the interview itself, and how to be a successful candidate. The point to remember here is to be pleasant to everyone you meet during the interview process; no matter what their level of hierarchy is, they’re working for the company you want to work for, and can easily be the reason you get the job because you never know who has a final say in offering you the job.

5. Saying Thank YouThis is vital as it is the last impression you will leave with the hiring team before they decide what to do with you. Who does this include? Your interviewer(s), your recruiter,  and your recruiting coordinator (if any). Take initiative and ask for their business cards. Make sure that you have the contact information for each person that you’ve either interviewed with or spoken to about the job, and email them no later than that same evening. The sooner you do this, the better it looks for you, because in most cases, the hiring team will be meeting that very same day to discuss how well you did; any chance you have of making yourself look good, is a chance you should take. 

Will remembering to do these five things guarantee you your job? I wish it did, but it all really comes down to how much you want that particular job. Just as much as the company is assessing your overall fit with them, you have to remember to do the same. Do you like the people you’ve met with? Do you think you would be able to work with them every single day? Is this a company that you can be happy representing or being a part of? If you answer no to any of those questions, don’t take the job. Starting a new job is very similar to starting a new relationship. Why go into one with doubts? If and when a company gives you a job offer, don’t see it as the only option that you will have because it’s absolutely not. It means that you ARE actually the best at what you do, and someone else noticed. 

How helpful was this information? Is there anything else you think should be added to the list that is equally as important? Leave a comment, let’s talk!

Build a Career Search Strategy that You Can Be Proud Of

Have you ever felt both thrilled and terrified at the same time? You might be feeling this way right now if you are graduating in May. I know I certainly do because in eight weeks, I will be completely done with grad school and I am not sure I have found the job that genuinly excites me. As a result, for the next month or so, we will focus on how to dominate the seemingly terrifying job hunt. Today we will start by connecting you with some of the best resources we have on finding the career path that inspires, excites, and motivates you. Because life is too short to spend your peak years at a job that sucks the life out of you. 

1.They tell you to network, but what would happen if you removed that pressure  and just reached out to people you thought were doing interesting things in the hopes of building a genuine relationship? This is where introverts, and semi-introverts have a leg up on the smoozers of the world. If you’ve tried “networking” and are ready to try a new approach, check this out (There is even a modifiable script for old contacts at the end). 

2. In the hunt for your perfect job, you will inevitably meet someone that can help you and you might have to reach out to them more than once, which can make you feel extremely annoying. The Muse breaks down how to ask for multiple favors with ease

3. Your resume is not the end all be all but it is usually your first point of contact with the world you are trying to enter. So get a format that works for you and then focus on adding killer content like this person did. And when it comes to resumes, I highly recommend taking a two step approach. First, reach out to your career development office and get some feedback from them. Then ask someone with experience in your dream industry to take a look at it because they will have an eye for the types of things that your future employer will want to see. 

4. This Forbes article on writing an epic cover letter brings me life because it’s so different from the dreadfully boring cover letters that your school has probably taught you to write. 

5. Let’s say you’ve spoken with people in your field, you’ve written a beautiful resume and cover letter and applied for the job. What now? Should you follow up or wait to hear back? This one is tough because there is so much conflicting advice on what to do, especially since some companies won’t reach out to you if you’ve been rejected. While some applications explicitly state that you shouldn’t call them, my friends who happen to be recruiters encourage me to pick up your phone and call. In their words: recruiters love it when candidates take initiative, and by simply calling and speaking with someone for a status update, you have already made your application stand out. When you speak with a recruiter and tell them what you’ve applied for, and who you are, you’ve pretty much had your first interview. On top of making yourself look good, you’re also saving a lot of time that you would have spent waiting for results. By no means are we saying that you should badger companies looking for a response, because that can and will definitely hurt you. Start with a phone call, and if nothing changes, send a follow-up email a few days later. Unfortunately there is no step by step guide on how to woo a recruiter; you have to make your best judgement and make sure to sell yourself while you're at it. 

Do you have any tips on how to get on your dream career path? Share your tips with the rest of us below :)

With Depth & Candor, 

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A Review on 'Tiny Beautiful Things'

You go to bed teary eyed and you wake up wondering how all those people are doing today. “Those people” feel like your friends and  relatives, you feel like you've known them for a long time and you really hope things have worked out well for them. Keep in mind, you've never actually met them. You've simply been exposed to their most vulnerable moments thanks to Cheryl Strayed and her book, Tiny Beautiful Things.

Let me back up a bit. People write in to Cheryl Strayed (aka Sugar) and ask her their most intimate questions like, “How do I become a writer without living in angst and how can I live a beautiful life when my finances are weighing me down?” And Sugar doesn't hold back. She lectures and listens and kicks asses and gives hugs in her answers. Seriously… I've never read anything like it. How does someone sound so alive in a response to someone they've never met? That is exactly what Tiny Beautiful Things is, a book of questions from people bearing their souls, and responses from someone you wish you could have by your side every single day. 

Although I went to bed teary eyed and woke up slightly afraid of how these soul bearers were doing in the world, I don't think Tiny Beautiful Things was written to make us cry. I think people were just asking someone their toughest questions and a loving response to our deepest questions happens to bear a book that makes us think about the beauty of being human. As I read this book, I grew from judgmental to super empathetic because I saw my own flaws, insecurities and past experiences in their questions. And I saw a more loving version of myself in Cheryl’s responses. Bottom line, we each have our own struggles and we handle them as best we can with the information we have.. and sometimes our information is clouded by the heavy emotions that surround that particular problem. And because we all do this, none of our issues are that different. It becomes obvious that we are really one and the same. 

If you are reading this, it's more than likely that you want to succeed on your own terms and make an impact in the world, and the truth is that most people want success but not everyone goes for it. While the desire for success is beautiful and noble and healthy and scary, maybe the most important thing we need to learn to become a doer instead of a dreamer is that the biggest contribution we can make to the world is to be kinder to ourselves. And you do this by never letting the anxiety eat you up while letting your goal be much bigger than yourself and by consistently giving it everything you've got.

In short, Tiny Beautiful Things makes me cry like a baby at how small we all are and how impactful we all can be. It is not about what happens next, it is about what happens inside. 

Fun Fact: Tiny Beautiful Things is based on the advice column, Dear Sugar

Links I'm Loving

I LOVE when my favorite bloggers weed through all the crap on the internet and put together a well-crafted list of articles and videos I'm interested in. So that is exactly what I thought I would do for you this week. Below is a list of resources that I love and think might help you on your journey to living life with more depth and fun!

1. Levo.com empowers young professionals with skills that nobody ever taught us. Can I hear an amen for any article titled “How to end a conversation at a networking event"? 

2. This fashion blogger became famous because she decided to stop buying clothes and start being stylish. 

3. Wanna learn to take epic Insta pics

4. Looking for an amazing adventure but aren’t sure you can afford it? TravelNoire to the rescue! 

5. Does the idea of creating a business plan block you from actually starting your business? This INC article might clear up some preconceived notions.